Wednesday, January 26, 2011

The Isolation and the introversion

How often do you see a handful of people standing aloof from a crowd in party? What does that observation makes you wonder about them? Do you consider them to be egoistic or someone for whom it's hard to get mix to a bunch of unknown individuals easily in a party where they weren't invited with known friends? If you consider them as someone latter then you would be right almost half of the times.

But that is a very obvious and common observation. What I really wanted to put out here is the fact that with time many individual's perception of being in a social group at parties or other such social gatherings has changed. Some like to stay aloof in a corner because they know that most of the cheery faced smiles on most of the interlinked individuals in the gathering is FAKE. These handful of individuals know that if they try to indulge themselves in a group then they would have to duplicate something what is now called as Mandatory Social Bondage. Yes you WILL have to greet everyone you see in a party with a smile on your face even if that person has not returned many of your calls in the last one year. You must not have seen people busting each other's  guts out as soon as they see their face. I mean I would personally love to do that to someone in party with whom I have had some grudges. Now that WILL seek THE ATTENTION! (Careful though about the crockery) . But No I won't do that because that's not how we behave in a social gathering where we are supposed to spread happiness and smiles only even when its fake at its best!

So such isolated individuals try their best to not to be a part of such a Mandatory Social Bondage so that this does not change what they truly are. However they attend such social events mainly because of the fact that someone very dearly invited them respectfully there and/or  they love free food! And gosh only if we witness more ass busting fights - things would definitely get more exciting and people would actually act more authentically afterwards witnessing such an enthralling genuine release of expressions (and moves). :)